The response to my message yesterday has been very encouraging–especially from young people. It light of the discussions and interest it generated, I’ve decided to post the text of my message here.
Have you embraced technology?
Let me give you some historical perspective as we begin today by reminding you of some of the changes we’ve experienced just in the last decade.
Email Accounts you had to pay for
Getting film developed
Movie Rental Stores
Public Pay Phones
My wife has been a late adopted to a lot of technology. She still has—and loves—her flip-phone. She shared this French commercial with me.
Some people think…
“Technology is our Savior!”
Some of you think, when Jesus said, “Follow me,” he was talking about Twitter!
“Technology is from Satan!”
Well, I’m pretty sure that MySpace was a dream of Lucifer. 🙂
I think technology—and social media in particular—is a tool—and just like any tool, it can be used to build things or tear things down.
What is social media?
websites and applications that enable users to create and share content.
The world is changing rapidly.
There was a tipping point last year that has major implications for business and brands. It will impact publishing and marketing strategies and tactics in the future.
Beyonce, one of the worlds biggest music stars ignored the traditional mass media product launching process. She bypassed the “normal” mass media release of a radio campaign, multiple TV appearances and retail and consumer brand promotions. Instead she announced it on Instagram to her 8 million followers with the word “Surprise” and proceeded to launch the 14 songs and accompanying 17 videos on iTunes.
It was a success and it exceeded the album downloads of the previous album which had used the traditional marketing model. Its a trend that is not going away anytime soon.
Here are some interesting stats about social media:
1. 72% of all internet users are now active on social media
2. 18-29 year olds have an 89% usage
3. The 30-49 bracket sits at 72%
4. 60 percent of 50 to 60 year olds are active on social media
5. In the 65 plus bracket, 43% are using social media
6. Time spent on Facebook per hour spent online by country. Here are the top three. USA citizens get the top gong at 16 min/hr followed by the Aussies at 14 min/hr and the Brits at 13 min/hr.
7. 71% of users access social media from a mobile device.
Speaking of mobile devices. We now have a Journey app. It will be available this week for free.
Let me pause and explain some terms and items that are important to understand technology:
App: An application, typically a small, specialized program downloaded onto mobile devices.
Blog: A site updated frequently by an individual or group to record opinions or information. I have a blog. You can find it at arronchambers.com
Hashtag: HubSpot defines a hashtag as a “word or string of characters that starts with a number sign.” Identical hashtags are then grouped into a search thread.
Tags: Keywords attached to a blog post, bookmark, photo or other item of content so you and others can find them easily through searches
Viral: Anything shared across social networks that get passed along rapidly. YouTube videos are a great example.
We’ve looked at most of these social issues through the paradigm of 2 questions:
Is it good for me?
Is it godly?
Is it good for me?
In a 2011 article, Jan H. Kietzmann, Kristopher Hermkens, Ian P. McCarthy and Bruno S. Silvestre: “present a framework that defines social media by using seven functional building blocks: identity, conversations, sharing, presence, relationships, reputation, and groups.”
Identity: This block represents the extent to which users reveal their identities in a social media setting. This can include disclosing information such as name, age, gender, profession, location, and also information that portrays users in certain ways.
Conversations: This block represents the extent to which users communicate with other users in a social media setting. Many social media sites are designed primarily to facilitate conversations among individuals and groups. These conversations happen for all sorts of reasons. People tweet, blog, et cetera to meet new like-minded people, to ﬁnd true love, to build their self-esteem, or to be on the cutting edge of new ideas or trending topics. Yet others see social media as a way of making their message heard and positively impacting humanitarian causes, environmental problems, economic issues, or political debates.
Sharing: This block represents the extent to which users exchange, distribute, and receive content. The term ‘social’ often implies that exchanges between people are crucial. In many cases, however, sociality is about the objects that mediate these ties between people—the reasons why they meet online and associate with each other.
Presence: This block represents the extent to which users can know if other users are accessible. It includes knowing where others are, in the virtual world and/or in the real world, and whether they are available.
Relationships: This block represents the extent to which users can be related to other users. By ‘relate,’ we mean that two or more users have some form of association that leads them to converse, share objects of sociality, meet up, or simply just list each other as a friend or fan.
Reputation: This block represents the extent to which users can identify the standing of others, including themselves, in a social media setting. Reputation can have different meanings on social media platforms. In most cases, reputation is a matter of trust, but since information technologies are not yet good at determining such highly qualitative criteria, social media sites rely on ‘mechanical Turks’: tools that automatically aggregate user-generated information to determine trustworthiness.
Groups: This block represents the extent to which users can form communities and sub communities. The more ‘social’ a network becomes, the bigger the group of friends, followers, and contacts.
(Source: H. Kietzmann, Jan; Kristopher Hermkens (2011). “Social media? Get serious! Understanding the functional building blocks of social media”. Business Horizons 54: 241–251.)
Yes, some good things can come from social media.
Take Facebook for example.
I’m on Facebook to connect with my friends, to reconnect with old friends, to network with readers of my books, and to minister.
Yes, I did say “to minister.”
I view a lot of what I do on Facebook as ministry.
I regularly post links to this blog and I’m regularly involved with ministry to friends through my Facebook email.
A few days ago, a good friend from High School wrote to me and described how she and her Facebook “community” had just suffered a tragic loss. Knowing I’m a minister, she asked me to post some scriptures on her wall that might help her friends in their grief.
A few months ago—and over the course of a few weeks—through emails on Facebook, I counseled an acquaintance through a serious personal issue.
Last week, a friend and I exchanged correspondence on an important theological issue.
Recently, I had the opportunity to help a Christian teen-aged friend understand the importance of making pure choices.
And these are just a few of the many opportunities I’ve had to minister on and through my Facebook account.
Can Facebook be time consuming? Yes!
Do I need to be careful about spending too much time “messing” with my Facebook account? Definitely!
Do I have to be careful to avoid sinful temptations that come while on Facebook? Of course.
Does Facebook provide an opportunity for me to minister to others? It sure does, and—for that—I’m 🙂
Is it godly?
Social media is a tool and—as I said earlier—it can be constructive or destructive.
And it’s a tool I believe Jesus would have used.
Remember the definition I shared for social media:
websites and applications that enable users to create and share content.
I think you can tweak that definition and reveal how Jesus shared the Gospel—and prove that He would have used social media:
messages, images, and events that enabled Him (Jesus) to create and share content.
I’d argue, because he wanted to connect with people and share content with them, he used the equivalents to social media.
He used miracles.
He used food.
He used kindness.
He used invites to play Candy Crush!
Please stop!!! I have a theory. In Hell, you’ll get an invite to play a stupid Facebook game every hour for eternity.
29 Jesus went on from there and walked beside the Sea of Galilee. And he went up on the mountain and sat down there. 30 And great crowds came to him, bringing with them the lame, the blind, the crippled, the mute, and many others, and they put them at his feet, and he healed them, 31 so that the crowd wondered, when they saw the mute speaking, the crippled healthy, the lame walking, and the blind seeing. And they glorified the God of Israel.
32 Then Jesus called his disciples to him and said, “I have compassion on the crowd because they have been with me now three days and have nothing to eat. And I am unwilling to send them away hungry, lest they faint on the way.” 33 And the disciples said to him, “Where are we to get enough bread in such a desolate place to feed so great a crowd?” 34 And Jesus said to them, “How many loaves do you have?” They said, “Seven, and a few small fish.” 35 And directing the crowd to sit down on the ground, 36 he took the seven loaves and the fish, and having given thanks he broke them and gave them to the disciples, and the disciples gave them to the crowds. 37 And they all ate and were satisfied. And they took up seven baskets full of the broken pieces left over. 38 Those who ate were four thousand men, besides women and children.
Jesus performed miracles because he loved helping hurting people and because he wanted to prove that He was God.
He used food because people love food! I love food, too!
And He was kind!
There are some mean people on Facebook.
btw…there are also some stupid people!
A Minnesota man is in jail because he logged on to Facebook.
Police say 26-year-old Nicholas Wig checked his profile from a home he broke into, and then he didn’t log off. It happened June 19 in South St. Paul.
“World’s dumbest criminal,” the homeowner James Wood said. “I don’t know.”
Wood had come home to find his house ransacked. His credit cards, cash and watch were all gone.
In their place, the thief had left a pair of Nike tennis shoes, jeans and a belt, that were all wet. Wood said it had been raining outside.
“I started to panic,” he said. “But then I noticed he had pulled up his Facebook profile.”
Wood posted to Facebook using Wig’s profile, saying Wig had burglarized his home. He even shared his phone number to see if someone would call with information. Wig texted him later that day.
“I replied you left a few things at my house last night, how can I get them back to you,” Wood said.
Wig agreed to meet with Wood later that night. Wood believes Wig was under the impression he would give him back some of his clothes he had left at his home in exchange for a recycled cell phone Wig had stolen.
Wood, at his friend’s house, left for home. On his way back to his house he saw and recognized Wig, from his Facebook profile, walking on the street. He immediately called police.
“I’ve never seen this before,” Dakota County Attorney James Backstrom said. “It’s a pretty unusual case, might even make the late night television shows in terms of not being too bright.”
Wig was wearing Wood’s watch when he found him. Police arrested him at the scene.
He could face up to 10 years in prison and $20,000 in fines if convicted.
Yes, there are stupid people on social media, but there are also mean people.
And, in my experience, Christians can be some of the meanest.
As we use social media, we must not forget who we are and who we represent.
Is it Godly?
There are at least three filters we can use to maintain godliness while using social media:
But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.
Some people are seeking social media first.
Facebook is among one of the most addicting (and therefore concerning) social networks. Nearly a quarter of Facebook users check their accounts five times or more per day. Furthermore, in a study conducted by IDC for Facebook, 25 percent of smartphone owners ages 18-44 say they can’t recall the last time their smartphone wasn’t next to them.
Harvard University looked at why social media is addictive. A study found that sites like Facebook and Twitter not only stimulate pleasure but it provides a way for people to share information about themselves and others.
Dr. Armand Schachter offers this warning.
“People’s productivity at work will decrease where its going to be noticed. People can get fired from work for essentially spending too much time on their Facebook, or Instagram, any social media activity,” said Schachter.
As with any addiction, you must first recognize there is a problem and then find helpful ways to reduce usage. Professional help may also be necessary. (Source: http://www.abc3340.com/story/25822605/study-social-media-websites-are-addictive)
“If you can’t stop it at all, come see a psychologist or a psychiatrist…” said Schachter.
I read a sad story about a young girl who died trying to save her cell phone.
In March 2014, a 14-year-old girl was killed by a train after she tried to retrieve her cell phone which she dropped on the tracks.
Jenna Betti was hit by a freight train in Martinez, CA. According to the 14-year-old’s mother Dena Derenale Betti, Jenna had reportedly been sitting on the tracks with her boyfriend and jumped off when the train approached. However, realizing that she had dropped her phone, she ran back for it, but misjudged the distance of the freight train and was “sucked in by its vacuum.”
Larry Carlat used to be a married editor of a famous men’s magazine. Then he became obsessed with Twitter, lost his job, got divorced, and alienated loved ones.
The tweetoholic describes tweeting “every hour on the hour, day and night.” His tweets were a clear violation of the company’s social-media policy. He was given to choose choice: to delete the account or face termination. He chose Twitter. About a month later, he lost his wife after tweeting “I would’ve taken a bullet for my wife, but now I’d rather be the one pulling the trigger.” He claims to have reached his lowest point when his son threatened to stop following him on Twitter.
After Tweeting as much as 30 times a day, seven days a week for over 3 years and amassing over 25,000 followers, Larry decided to commit “Twittercide” and left the social platform.
The results of a new Microsoft survey (http://campus.ie/news/college-news/microsoft-students-technology-survey) reveal that students just can’t live without their gadgets.
For some students, their love for and dependence on technology would push them to sacrifice years of their life to stay connected. One in four (23%) would rather live to the age of 60 with access to the internet, than live to 80 without ever accessing it: indicating that students see internet access as a basic right alongside food, sleep or air.
“You shall have no other gods before me.”
A “god” is what gets our time, attention, devotion, and physical/emotional/financial/spiritual devotion.
When it comes to social media and our godliness, I think it’s important to speak about propriety.
I’ve seen Christians post words and pictures that make me scratch my head and wonder, “What in the world are you thinking?!?”
Let me give you some things that might help us “mind our manners” on social media.
I got this list from a member of Journey who writes a regular article for the Greeley Tribune, Melissa DeBusk.
You can read her blog here: Living in the Deep End.
Recently, she wrote an article entitled, Social Media Manners: Stay Classy Moms.
I think she offers a lot of wisdom that can help all of us to be more proper on social media.
Think Before You Type: Whether it be a ranting status update or an angry comment, give yourself some time to cool off before you type something you’ll regret. Everything on Facebook is stored in their servers indefinitely, so make sure your words don’t come back to haunt you one day. Have a trusted friend or a spouse weigh in before you reply to help you gain some perspective.
Be Polite: If you are tempted to type something which you wouldn’t say to someone in person, this is a great sign that you shouldn’t put the nasty words on social media. It is incredibly rude to hide behind a computer screen or an iPhone and say something ugly to someone which you would never say to his or her face. Your friends and family are reading your typed words, and just because they aren’t spoken doesn’t make them any less hurtful, offensive or real.
Ask First: Before you tag an unflattering picture of your junior high bestie, a cute photo of a friend’s new baby or a snapshot from a wild party, get permission. Someone may not want the picture broadcast to their entire friends list or their employer, especially if it shows them in an unprofessional setting. Sometimes new parents want to be the first ones to share a picture of their baby or would rather you not post a picture of their child, so always ask permission to be on the safe side.
Skip the Drama: If you have a big blow out with a close friend, resist the urge to blast them on social media. Even a vague status update such as, “I really can’t believe some people,” can lead friends and family to question what happened and may lead to the involved parties feeling betrayed. Everyone has fights and arguments, but it will be much harder to make amends if you publicly shared your unhappiness. The same goes for your spouse. Keep your arguments and dirty laundry private.
You Can’t Reason with Crazy: One of the best pieces of advice I’ve ever received is to leave “crazy” alone. If someone is passionately responding to something which you’ve shared or typed, it’s ok to let it be. Your friends will see the situation for what it is without you getting into a back and forth reply situation which could likely have no ending. There are people in this world who insist on having the last word no matter how hard you try to remedy the situation or find a solution, and it’s not worth your energy to continue to argue with them. Choose the high road, and accept that you cannot reason with crazy.
When in Doubt, Think About Your Kids: A great filter to use in social media is to think about how you would want your child to respond in the same situation. If your daughter was in your shoes and had a tacky comment written on her status update, how would you suggest she handle it? In all actuality, we are setting an example of manners and appropriate online behavior for our children, so it’s a great way to teach or prepare to teach our kids.
Sympathize: Remember you are not alone in the Facebook world by a long shot, and that anonymous photo which you snap to express your disgust or shock (like the one of the mom breast feeding) are not as anonymous as you might think. The same goes for the author of an article or blog post which you simply hate. Everyone is someone’s child, and all of your interactions on social media need to keep this in mind.
Keep it PG: This may make me sound old-fashioned, but I’d rather not see my newsfeed filled with obscene language and dirty jokes. If you must share something inappropriate, use messenger, email or the “share only with” setting. This also protects you in the long run with potential employers and others who you will interact with in a professional setting.
Have Grace: We are all going to make social media blunders, and having grace and forgiveness with others is the only way to expect them to have grace and forgiveness towards us one day. We are learning, human and imperfect, and we live in an imperfect world. Social media is simply a reflection of that.
Let me add a few more:
Could a pastor discuss this at his Sunday service?
While your posts need not be medicinal and dry, consider the potential eyes on your profile. Would you be comfortable if your boss, client, spouse, pastor or children’s teacher read and shared your views?
Is that a picture your pastor needs to see?
Take your complaints, griping, and sniping offline.
Especially when it’s so vague that everyone who knows you and reads it thinks it’s about them.
Something like this, “Thanks for destroying my life. You monster!”
It’s not all about you!
Think about other people when you post. Don’t always make everything always about you.
It’s not all about politics!
Next week I’m preaching on Jesus&Politics.
Posting about politics is the quickest way to start a fight.
I have very strong political views, but I just don’t feel like social media is the place to hash that out and I know that I’m delusional if I think 140 characters is going to change anyone’s political views.
Every time I read a political post that has exploded, I’m reminded of Matthew 7:6.
“Do not give dogs what is holy, and do not throw your pearls before pigs, lest they trample them underfoot and turn to attack you.”
It’s not all about cat videos!
But, if it was, it would be this video:
Let me make an important point here.
I’m not suggesting we don’t ever stand for anything on social media. Absolutely not!
Yes, Jesus wanted to connect with as many people as possible. Yet, when the crowds got too large, he’d say something unpopular to thin crowd out.
24 Then Jesus told his disciples, “If anyone would come after me, let him deny himself and take up his cross and follow me. 25 For whoever would save his life[g] will lose it, but whoever loses his life for my sake will find it. 26 For what will it profit a man if he gains the whole world and forfeits his soul? Or what shall a man give in return for his soul? 27 For the Son of Man is going to come with his angels in the glory of his Father, and then he will repay each person according to what he has done. 28 Truly, I say to you, there are some standing here who will not taste death until they see the Son of Man coming in his kingdom.”
Now, some people seem to be negative because it’s all they know how to be.
As my Grandpa would say, “They’re again’ everything!”
Let’s speak the truth, but speak the truth in love. And, let’s be godly as we do it.
I think the Apostle Paul gives us a great paradigm for how to use social media.
I Corinthians 10:23, 24, 31
“All things are lawful,” but not all things are helpful. “All things are lawful,” but not all things build up. Let no one seek his own good, but the good of his neighbor…
So, whether you eat or drink, or whatever you do, do all to the glory of God.
1 Thessalonians 4:3-8
For this is the will of God, your sanctification: that you abstain from sexual immorality; that each one of you know how to control his own body in holiness and honor, not in the passion of lust like the Gentiles who do not know God; that no one transgress and wrong his brother in this matter, because the Lord is an avenger in all these things, as we told you beforehand and solemnly warned you. For God has not called us for impurity, but in holiness.
A friend of mine is a very capable counselor who has worked with church leaders for decades. He recently told me, “Facebook is keeping my calendar filled. Over the past year just about every church leader I have seen who has had an affair told me it started on Facebook.”
This is a wake-up call to any Christian who is on Facebook. Men AND women. I know of way too many women who have left their husbands to connect with someone they reconnected with on Facebook. We must be careful.
Here are some practical things we can do to be faithful on Facebook:
Don’t accept a friend request from someone you don’t know who is dressed provocatively in their profile picture.
And–especially is she’s especially “hot”–don’t justify accepting the friend request because you “thought she was a young member of our church who might have some questions about the church that she needs answered before she can commit to becoming a member.”
Enter into an accountability relationship with another Christian man or woman who will ask you regularly about your interactions with other women or men on Facebook.
Tell your accountability partner to ask you questions like, “Are you indulging in anything that feels inappropriate to you?”, “Has a female friend on Facebook shared anything with you that you wouldn’t feel comfortable sharing with your wife?” “Have you shared anything with another ‘friend’ on Facebook that your wife would find inappropriate?” “Are you looking at pictures on Facebook that are causing you to lust?”
Share an account with your spouse.
Give your Facebook password to your spouse or accountability partner and ask them to check your account every week.
Tell them to ask you, “Have you deleted anything that we might consider inappropriate.”
Agree that you and your spouse will only go on Facebook in a public area of your home with the screen in full view of one another.
Un-friend anyone who tempts you in any way to do, say, look at, or do anything that is inappropriate for a follower of Jesus.
Get off Facebook if it’s causing you to sin regularly.
As Jesus would say, “If you Facebook account is causing you to sin, gouge it out and throw it away. It is better for you to lose one social networking opportunity than for your whole body to be thrown into hell.”
Put a picture of your spouse and kids next to your computer monitor.
I do this with my laptop on road-trips. It’s a powerful deterrent to sin.
Use a picture of your spouse and kids as your screen saver.
Don’t hide your faith on Facebook.
If you regularly put scriptures, sermon quotes, Christian statements, etc. on Facebook, it may help to keep you–and any one who may want to reconnect with you in sinful ways–honest.
If you are married, don’t search for old girlfriends or boyfriends on Facebook.
It may be innocent curiosity at first, but there’s nothing holy to be gained. And don’t give me that garbage about “only wanting to reconnect with them so you can share your faith with them.”
If you are looking at something or writing something on Facebook that you’d be embarrassed for your 10-year-old son or daughter to see, then you are doing something inappropriate that needs to stop.
Don’t get on Facebook after your spouse goes to sleep unless you have his/her permission and the agreement that they can review your Facebook history in the morning.
And, at this point, let me say something to people who aren’t technically savvy. People, you need to know how to check the history feature on your computer. Check it often and if the history on your computer is always empty after your wife/husband uses the computer you need to start asking some serious questions because he/she is hiding something.
Pray for purity before you log onto Facebook.
Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is commendable, if there is any excellence, if there is anything worthy of praise, think about these things.
©2014 Arron Chambers